NANGARHAR (Khaama Press): Religious scholars and tribal elders in Nangarhar at a gathering called for an end to the practice of giving girls as compensation (Baad), a reduction in dowry expenses, and the limitation of excessive costs in wedding and mourning ceremonies.
They have established a special commission and issued a 19-article resolution to enforce these decisions.
“Girls should not be given as a resolution to disputes, and dowries should not be paid. Marriage contracts should take place at the bride’s father’s home so that the groom is well known to the family,” said Abdul Mohammad, a tribal elder.
“Discussions were held on expenses related to charity, wedding ceremonies, and mourning costs. It was agreed that no unnecessary expenses would be incurred, and all issues would be collectively decided,” said Din Mohammad, another tribal elder.
To implement these decisions, residents and tribal elders have formed a special district-level commission comprising scholars and tribal leaders.
“A special commission has been created to ensure the implementation of these decisions. If anyone violates these agreements, the commission will take immediate action,” said Mahmood Jan Agha, a tribal elder.
“The dowry should be completely abolished. The number of guests at weddings should be limited, and excessive food preparation should be avoided,” said Fazal Rabee, a tribal elder.
“Village elders, scholars, and community leaders have reached an agreement and convinced the people to abandon harmful customs. The community has also pledged to respect these decisions,” said Nusrat Kochi, the district chief of Surkhrod.
Religious scholars stressed the importance of eliminating harmful and costly customs to promote social progress and reform.
“The excessive expenses we incur in mourning and wedding ceremonies are both against Islamic teachings and inhumane. These practices often lead to debt,” said Afghan Mujahid, a religious scholar in Nangarhar.
“Unfortunately, dowries have become very expensive in the country and are beyond the reach of young people. As a result, many are forced to migrate abroad,” said Islamuddin, a resident of Surkhrod.
This social gathering comes after a previous decree by the leader of the Islamic Emirate calling for an end to harmful and costly customs.